Date Me Directory

Submit Your Date Me Doc

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\n \n Name*\n \n \n

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\n \n Profile URL*\n \n

\n If you don't have a Date Me Doc yet, create one in Notion or{\" \"}\n Google Docs, and then copy its public link here.\n

\n \n

\n\n

\n Age\n \n

\n\n

\n Your Gender\n {[\"F\", \"M\", \"NB\"].map(gender => (\n <>\n \n \n {gender}\n \n \n ))}\n

\n\n

\n Interested In\n {[\"F\", \"M\", \"NB\"].map(gender => (\n <>\n \n \n {gender}\n \n \n ))}\n

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\n Location\n

\n If you don't see your location represented, request it to be added after you submit your doc.\n

\n \n {locations.map(location => (\n

\n \n \n {location}\n \n

\n ))}\n

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\n Location Flexibility\n \n \n \n \n \n

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\n Relationship Style\n \n \n \n \n \n

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\n \n Contact*\n \n \n

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\n \n Submit\n \n

\n ,\n );\n\nexport const Submit = async (c) => {\n const body = await c.req.parseBody();\n const args = [\n JSON.stringify(body[\"Name\"]),\n JSON.stringify(body[\"Profile\"]),\n parseInt(body[\"Age\"]),\n JSON.stringify(body[\"Gender[]\"]),\n JSON.stringify(body[\"InterestedIn[]\"]),\n JSON.stringify(body[\"location[]\"]),\n JSON.stringify(body[\"LocationFlexibility\"]),\n JSON.stringify(body[\"Style\"] === \"mono\" ? [\"mono\"] : body[\"Style\"] === \"poly\" ? [\"poly\"] : [\"Any\"]),\n JSON.stringify(body[\"Contact\"]),\n new Date().toISOString(),\n ];\n console.log(args);\n try {\n await sqlite.execute(\n {\n sql: `INSERT INTO DateMeDocs (\n Name, \n Profile, \n Age, \n Gender, \n InterestedIn, \n Location, \n LocationFlexibility, \n Style, \n Contact, \n LastUpdated\n ) VALUES (?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?, ?)`,\n args,\n },\n );\n await email({ subject: \"Date Me Doc Submit Success: \" + body[\"Name\"], text: args.join(\"\\n\") });\n } catch (e) {\n await email({ subject: \"Date Me Doc Submit Error: \" + body[\"Name\"], text: args.join(\"\\n\") });\n }\n return c.html(\n \n

\n Thanks for your submission!

We hope you find love 🥰\n

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